Sonntag, 13. Juni 2010

Haters make me famous!?

Some of you might saw it on Twitter or on Fat-Nurse's blog, there has been an issue with an fat-hating group on facebook and some pictures of her and also myself. She twittered about finding a picture of her at the group called: Save the planet from fat girls in leggings . I browsed through the pictures and suddenly was speechless and shocked. My mum was in the room too and she looked at me. I felt like someone had hit my in the face and tears came to my eyes immediately. I began to cry and said: "OMG I just found a picture of me in a facebook group!"
I cried for about 2 or 3 minutes, and ask my mum and myself how people can be so cruel and stupid. Than I realised that in this moment one of my greatest fears came true. And actually it hasn't changed anything in my live. Of cause it made me feel bad for a moment, but actually if you just forget for a moment how unbelievable cruel and disgusting the whole group is, it doesn't impact my life in any way. It doesn't matter at all if somewhere in this huge universe some people with the IQ of a untoasted slice of toast think that I shouldn't wear leggings, loose 15kg to look good or aren't allowed to wear flat peep toes, cause that is something fat girls should never, ever to (WTF??). 
Of cause I thought about reporting it, getting angry with the one who founded the group, the girl who I doesn't know, posted the picture to their group and to tell all the people that they should fuck themselves. But than I decided that this actually is what they would like to see, that I feel hurt by their behavior. So I turned around, entered the group, shared my pictured in their group on my profil so everyone I am friends with sees how stupid some others are, I also commented under the pictured and thanked all the one who left quite nice comments about how cute I am and told everyone else to go and fuck themselves. 

Yes groups like this are disgusting, mean and more than just stupid. They are degrading. It doesn't matter if it is a group about how much someones hates fat girls, red hairs, people with glasses, short ones, tall ones , black ones or everyone who believes in jesus. It is always a sign of how unsure people who subscribe to groups like this, are about themselves. On one hand I think groups like this should be reported and closed, they are so hateful and put a huge pressure on people. On the other hand I would love if every girl of the fatshion community enters a group like this is spams so many pictures of herself in leggings and tights that people will die because of their overload of hate they will feel when they see it.
I believe that being against something never leads to a satisfied solution. I also believe that hate just attracts more hate. So hate of anti-fat people attracts the hate of fat people what attracts the hate of anti-fat people again. Somewhen this circle has to be stopped. So I don't hate the people who put up a picture about me. I forgive them for being so poor and stupid and I just hope that some day they will see what is going wrong in their head.
We should stand up and be proud, we should say out loud what we want and not what we hate. We should just spread love and tolerance. I really think that everything you fear is coming to you sooner or later and that is what just happened to me. So if the 60.000 people of this anti-fat-girls-in-leggins groups fears the most that more fat girls wear leggings, we should just fulfill their fear and show them who fucking awesome we look in it!

And now something totally different: A snapshot of my new hair color <3 yay!

Kommentare :

  1. Well said my love! And the pic the put up of you rocked! I'm sorry it happened to you and Devon though, but I'm glad you're letting it go! Awesome hair! :D

    <3

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  2. Ugh! It's sickening to think that someone feels the need to make a group like this and even worse that they don't know how wrong it is. Sorry you had to go through that but it was interesting to read how you turned it around. Head up, get the leggings out. ;)

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  3. I have lots of love for you hun, I'm sorry that they got you aswell but at least you found out I guess. I ended up crying this afternoon after I got over the initial shock of seeing myself there.
    However, this is why we have copyright disclaimers - if that image of myself isn't removed then they will feel the full force of this fat nurse's wrath. Not a force to be reckoned with.
    Anyone who has suffered from something like this needs to shout out and help us take down hate groups like this one. Fuck, they can't even spell "LEGGINGS" right, duuuuuh. Sure sign of intelligence there. Oh, and the ALLCAPS IN THE TITLE OF THE GROUP?! Icing on the cake, really.
    These people are at the bottom of the gene pool and the best achievement in life they'll ever have is the knowledge that they were the fastest sperm and that's it.
    Just encourage others to report the groups like this that exist purely for hate speech and carry on being your damn sexy self.
    Devon, xx
    www.fat-nurse.com

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  4. Ganz toller Post! Ich finde es super, wie du damit umgehst, ich glaube ich würde Zeter und Mordio schreien, wenn die ein Bild von mir da hätten. Aber du hast natürlich Recht, genau das ist es doch was die Leute da am meisten freuen würde. Also beglücke sie lieber mit tollen Fotos. ;)
    Sehr hübsche Farbe auch, welche benutzt du denn?

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  5. Sieht super aus, die Neue Frise! :)
    Und das mit der Facebookgruppe: Respekt, wie du damit umgehst finde ich super. Bewundernswert! :3
    Liebste Grüße,

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  6. scheiß auf die hirnverbrannten vögel :D vllt finden dadurch welche deinen blog ;) why not?! :D der menschenverstand sagt einem doch, dass die total intolerant und hohl sind :D

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  7. I reported the group and also flagged a lot of the comments in the group! Please don't worry about what they think - they're just idiots with nothing else to do with their time. We've got so much going for us, we have the future in front of us, and the best they can hope for is to live a life full of hate and ignorance.

    Also, love the hair! :)

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  8. MEGA-HUGS! I'm so sorry that happened to you!
    Don't let them bully you out of your leggings, I'm going to wear my leggings tomorrow out of solidarity!

    I haven't even checked to see if I'm on there, I'm getting married in 5 days and I'm not sure I could handle it right now on top of everything...

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  9. Apparently I am on there, oh well. Fuck them, I'll still wear my leggings forever!

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  10. i hate hate hate aaaaaaaall of these supid MoFos! We look good! and I LOOOOOOVE YOUR LEGS! :D

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  11. Found you through a link from Pretty in Plus there, and I'm posting the same image link I posted to hers--
    http://www.mikemcgee.net/wp-content/uploads/1242032359_haters-gonna-hate.gif

    Haters gonna hate, keep on rockin'. :)

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  12. FUCK THE HATERS.

    your hair looks gorgeous.

    <3

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  13. That group is full of a bunch of people who are so unhappy and bored with their lives that they have to tear down others. Whatever!! You are beautiful and you don't need to lower yourself to their level! Love the new hair!!

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  14. People who have a different body will be always attack.I learned it since I was a child. but we have a plus: We're stronger than the other people. We're better than them. We fight and we always have a epic win.
    You musn't worry about what they think or they say; they're missing links with only a silly neuron (besides the neuron doesn't works)

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  15. that facebook group made me speechaless, well, it just sucks...some people don't have better things to do, it's sad. YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL xoxox

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  16. mode ist sowas großartiges, spannendes, lustiges und spassiges. das sollte doch nicht nur schlanken menschen vorbehalten sein. es gibt doch auch schlanke menschen die richtig schlimm aussehen. gibts da schon ne fb-gruppe für? :-) ich fühle mit dir. die haben einfach nichts du tun, glaub ich.
    bleib wie du bist, denn du bist wie du bist, weil du so bist wie du bist. bleib stark, bleib anders. und rock dein blog.

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  17. Hi! :)

    I just wanted to tell you 3 things!

    The first one is that I absolutely love your blog!!

    The second one is that... this people from the facebook group are just stupid... it's just amazing how mean they are... but we just have to keep on wearing our leggins because we are, as you said, awesome with them!!! ^^

    And the third one is that I also love your new hair color :P

    Bye beauty!!

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  18. I saw it as well, and reported it. I want to tell you that I really respect how you`re handling this, very inspiring! I`m wearing my tights today, fat knees and all! xxxxxxxx!
    Anika

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  19. If anything, I love your hair. Best colour combination ever!!!

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  20. hey,....sehr schöner blog....eine neue leserin ist dir garantiert!!! grüße

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  21. Idioten. Sollen sich ins Knie ficken. Mehr ist dazu nicht zu sagen :D

    Deine Haare sehen sehr flaumi aus (Was absolut als Kompliment anzusehen ist :D)

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